Coordinator
of the Nigerian Lesbian, Gay, Biséxual and Transséxual, LGBT community,
Yemisi Ilesanmi, in this interview with TELL Magazine, talks about
homoséxual relationship and that LGBTs should be treated with respect
because being gay is not criminal.
Read the opinions and views of the Biséxual young woman below:
Excerpts:
On what Nigerians need to know about homoséxuality:
The
very first thing we need to understand is that homoséxuality,
biséxuality, aséxuality are all as natural as heteroséxuality. Our
séxual orientation differs; we are born with an innate ability to be
emotionally or séxually attracted or not be séxually or emotionally
attracted to same séx or opposite séx. Unfortunately, many African
societies do not provide enabling environments to discuss séxual
orientation. Séxual orientation does not harm anyone. A person who is
attracted to opposite séx does not harm anyone so far it is a consensual
adult relationship. A homoséxual who is attracted to the same séx does
not harm anybody so far it is a consensual adult relationship. A
Biséxual or Panséxual who can be attracted to all séxes harms no one so
far it is an adult consensual relationship. Even an Aséxual who is not
séxually attracted to any gender harms no one. We are all different, and
non-harmful lifestyle of adults should not be criminalised.
On if Nigerians will ever accept homoséxuality:
Whether
Nigerians accept it or not, LGBT rights are recognised human rights.
Unless, you can prove that Lesbians, gays, biséxuals and transséxuals
are not human beings, well, you have no reason to deny them their
fundamental human rights. Unfortunately many Nigerians believe in the
concept of sin. First, we must understand that sin is a religious
concept. Not every Nigerian is religious. Your religion is also a
personal matter, why drag other people into your personal relationship
with Jesus, Mohamed or Obatala? When I am told that homoséxuality is a
sin, I just tell them their religion is not my law. The Bible or Quran
is not my constitution, so why is that even coming up? It is absurd when
Christian gay bashers gleefully quote Leviticus 18:22 to justify why
they want to jail and stone gays. Anyone who wants to quote from
Leviticus should at least read the book to make sure they are not guilty
of any of the things condemned in the book. Leviticus also says you
should not shave, you should not interact with a woman in her menstrual
cycle, thou shall not eat shrimps or shell fish, Lev. 11:10,11:6-8 thou
shall not touch the skin of a dead pig (therefore touching football
without wearing gloves makes you unclean!) So, when Christians throw
Leviticus at me, I simply throw Leviticus right back in their face.
On what her family thinks about her séxual orientation and controversies:
What
makes a family is love, tolerance and acceptance. Anyone who shows me
love and welcomes me into their heart is my family. Love is one thing
that is thicker than blood. My immediate family knows my séxual
orientation, my father is late, and my mother is accepting of whom I am
and has shown me love and support. To continue to be an important part
of my life, you cannot be homophobic, biphobic or transphobic.
On if her atheism belief is connected to her séxuality:
My
atheism has nothing to do with my biséxuality. Atheism is simply a
non-belief in God. My biséxuality is my séxual orientation, no
connection. However, I must say, my atheism has helped me to stand up
against religious bullies, who use the Bible and the Quran to justify
their hate for gays, lesbians, transséxual and biséxuals. Religion
carries a lot of unwarranted weight in Nigeria and Africa generally.
This should not be so. In fact, this is one reason the African continent
is still very backward. When religion carried so much weight in Europe
during middle Ages, it was wrought with wars, jihads, killings and
ethnic cleansing. Many religious Africans now use the ‘holy’ books to
justify the oppression of members of their own society. Even when the
original owners of the religion inform them that the book has been
updated and some parts are no longer applicable, Africans still insist
that it is must be applicable because it says so in the book they were
given. How pathetic!
Source: Sahara Reporters
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